OUR
SUCCESSES
Amongst the Trust's numerous successes in
helping children, the following cases are typical examples. The
details are true, but the names have been altered to protect anonymity.
Sarah
, Jo and Matthew
The children's mother has mental health
problems and she cannot cope with caring for her children full time and has
struggled to understand her mood swings. She was in a violent and abusive
marriage and decided to move to another location to give her and the children a
new start. She has had suicidal thoughts and was increasingly concerned for her
childrens’ safety when they are with her. She had asked Social Services for
help as the family were in crisis. Mother identified that boarding could provide
the children with routine and structure and provide her with respite. The Trust
was able to make grants available for all three children to attend a boarding
school.
Helen
Helen lives with her aunt’s family where she
shares a bedroom with her mother. Prior to moving in with her aunt, Helen’s
mother had been answering newspaper and magazine advertisements and started
meeting men through chat lines. In 2003 she introduced her children to a known
paedophile who had only recently been released from prison. This man sexually
abused Helen and was subsequently imprisoned for the offence.
Helen keeps everything immaculately;
while mother makes no effort, leaving dirty washing all over the floor. Her
mother is totally self-absorbed. Mother began to make inappropriate sexual
remarks to Helen which were overheard by her aunt. The aunt spotted Helen’s
abuser close to the family home and became concerned this man would seek Helen
out. It was felt that, in these circumstances, Helen would be safer at
boarding school. The Trust was able to provide a grant for Helen to escape from
the problems at home.
Lewis
Lewis and his mother share a bedroom in a rented
flat. The other 2 rooms are rented out to other tenants. They all share a small
galley kitchen. The small lounge is stacked with belongings. There is no
privacy, limited washing and cooking facilities and nowhere for Lewis to play.
Mother has had many ups and downs and has been ill with depression for the last
3 years. She was working as a Senior Nurse but because of her depression is
currently unable to work. Lewis needs consistency. His mother is not always well
and she acknowledges she is not coping. The home circumstances are desperate and
the Trust was able to assist with a grant for Lewis to attend a state boarding
school.
Aisha
Aisha lives with her mother and twin brothers in
North East
England
. Her mother struggles financially to feed and clothe her children. The children's'
father has disappeared and mother has no extended family to provide support.
Aisha’s primary school noted a change in her appearance and attitude. Aisha
rarely smiled and became involved in playground squabbles. She also stopped
eating and had to sit in the Head’s Office at lunchtime, to enable her eating
to be monitored. Aisha was becoming ‘street wise’ and was increasingly left
to her own devices. The primary school was concerned that she might mix with the
wrong crowd and be led astray. Aisha enjoys singing and considers this the
“best bit” of her life. She passed a voice trial at the Chorister School,
Durham, and the Trust were able to assist with funding for her to attend the
School as a boarder.
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Despite the fact that The Reedham Trust supports
children for social and not educational reasons, we are always pleased to
receive notification in the Autumn Term of examination results for those of our
students who have reached the stage of taking their GCSEs or A Levels.
Having settled down at boarding school and being away, for a large part
of the year, from difficult or worrying home circumstances many young people
flourish and when they reach the age to take exams perform very creditably
indeed, laying a firm foundation for further study and career prospects.
If you require any further details of the Trust, please contact Jean Watkins, the Trust Secretary,
on:-
Tel: + 44 (0)20-8660 1461
Fax: + 44 (0)20-8763 1293
Email: info@reedham-trust.org.uk